Write another parenting book, that is!
I’ve written seven of them ( www.parentingideas.com.au ), going back to 1992, and each one nearly did me in.
Let’s face it! It’s easier writing columns and newsletters than tackling a 70,000+ word book.
DESPITE my protests I’ve written another one …………………………….and I’m super-glad that I did. More about the book in a moment, but I’d like to tell you why I changed my mind.
If you followed me in Happy Kids (www.parentingideas.com.au )or read my Body and Soul columns in News Ltd newspapers around the country you’d know that I’ve been writing about a different type of parenting than anyone else.
For over four years I’ve been writing about a type of parenting that:
- focuses on the real long term needs of kids rather than short-term knee jerk reactions I see from so many people who write about parenting.
- focuses less on individual children’s needs and more on family needs, because the notion of shared responsibility is central to effective child-rearing.
- works from kids’ strengths, rather than focusing all the time on kids’ problems or on what they can’t do.
- makes the most of children’s opportunity years (up to the age of ten), which set kids and parents up to negotiate the adolescent years.
- recognises the rules of family-life have changed, requiring strong, assertive family leadership.
- Recognises that parenting is a personal growth activity with transference to other areas of life.
So throughout 2009 I put all my ideas and concepts into a coherent 70,000+ page book, that I absolutely believe nails what effective parenting is all about.
The first readers’ responses have been OVERWHELMING.
My editor’s (who is a mother) response is typical of those who’ve read it.
After reading the early draft she said that Thriving will be her new parenting bible. She’ll be recommending it to all her friends…………………………………
BUT the important thing is, I’m thrilled with it!
At times while proof-reading different drafts I’ve jumped up from my chair like a little kid opening his presents at Christmas saying, “This is great. This is seriously good! Did I write this?”
My office staff just look at me with that ‘there he goes again’ look………..
I’m confident that this book and the events we have planned around it will go a long way to changing the face of parenting……………
I know it’s a big call but it has some seriously important concepts in it.
The name, THRIVING, sums up its intent.
It’s a roadmap for parents to help their kids THRIVE as they prepare them to tackle the changing world of this new millennium.
Want to be notified about great events that I’ve got planned around the launch of Thriving? Then go to www.parentingideas.com.au/parents.