When he let me hold his tiny hand, I knew I had him. Only just five, vegemite on his chin and fear crouching in his eyes, he allowed a quarter of himself to slip from behind his mum’s chair, just enough for his chubby fist to stretch out to me.
He wanted a picture on his hand, you see. They all do. Especially when I tell them that their brothers don’t yet have one and that it will be a picture of the toughest cat in Australia: Sharbi Millionaire, and that he lives in my house. Now Sharbi’s real name is Button, but that’s not tough enough to get me his hand, and then I won’t be able to do my job: as a clinical psychologist assessing the impact of experiencing domestic violence his whole little life.
But back to Sharbi Millionaire. At only one month old, Sharbi won second prize at the Royal Easter Show for best kitten in show. This I tell my little client as I carefully ink Sharbi’s ears onto the back of his hand. I’ve never asked a mum’s permission – she’s always biting her lip, listening too, wondering how on earth I’m going to be able to interview her child/ children, who’ve always seen too much, and who trust no one new.
Maybe it’s because of the contest that Sharbi thinks he’s so special, I tell her son, drawing carefully. No one really knows, but Sharbi lives in a house with five other cats, and all of them know that he’s the boss of the whole show. Even of the adults! He acts like he’s the police, I say, curving fat cheeks, flicking out long licks of whiskers onto the back of his hand. Sharbi always eats first, and if someone even tries to take a bite before him he makes a warning sound, a little snort through his nose, and the food is spat out immediately. And he’s always barking out orders, I say, as I round out fat haunches, curl and twirl a cheeky tail. He tells the other cats – Stand There! Don’t Move! Wait For Me! Give Me That Right Now! And the others always do exactly what Sharbi Millionaire tells them.
But there’s one cat who lives in Sharbi’s house who’s bigger than any other cat in this country. His name is Bear, I whisper now, hunching over the drawing, getting ready to create the eyes (Sharbi’s eyes are always last). Bear is red, I tell the little one, fire-engine red, and sometimes, at night time, if you bump into him in a dark hallway, he looks almost as though he really is a big red fire truck.
And then I shape Sharbi’s clever, Siamese eyes. Swap texta pens. Ink them in, bright blue.
Bear is ten times bigger than Sharbi Millionaire, I say. And he almost breaks his human’s backs when they try to pick him up. So guess what Bear does when Sharbi Millionaire walks past? I ask, holding up his stubby arm, showing his mum his new tattoo.
Bear falls down! I exclaim. Drops, right there on the ground, and sometimes the walls shake. Mind you, if Bear fell on Sharbi, Sharbi would be all squished, but Sharbi always sails right on by, sometimes giving a little snort through his nose if Bear hasn’t dropped fast enough.
By now, if I’d wanted to, and I really, really want to, I could have hooked an arm around the waist of my little client and scooped him right up onto my lap. He’s fully disentangled now from mum; his legs pressed against mine, he twists his hand this way and that to try to get the best view of Sharbi Millionaire.
You’re just like Sharbi Millionaire, I tell him, almost nose to nose, his eyes each a universe. You might be small, but you’re brave and strong, and I’m pretty sure – yep – I’m positive that your eyes are just like Sharbi’s.
And now it’s time to ask. Something bad happened in your house, didn’t it? I say, with him now, in the room inside his eyes, banishing the menacing fear to the corners. Yes, he’ll nod, and tell me. About the times he used to scream for mum but no sound would come out because the man pushed the pillow over his head while he hit, or mum couldn’t hear because she was crying so loud, or his voice wouldn’t come out of the cupboard where he hid.
Later, his big brothers will tell me of trying to wake their mum while blood ran from her ears, and how if they cried too much He’d only hit harder. And I walk with them through the rooms in their eyes. They tell me about their nightmares and their rage, and how sometimes they wet the bed at night because they’re too scared to walk the hallway. They tell me that they hate their teachers – male ones especially, and that they don’t like to be told what to do. That they can’t concentrate in class, because they’re worried about mum at home, or that it will all happen again if she meets someone new.
Sometimes, especially when they’re older, they leave with a skull drawn onto their hand, or a mutant octopus; maybe a toxic spider or a venomous snake. But when my little one waves goodbye it’s with his un-inked hand. He’s holding Sharbi Millionaire close to his chest.
For more about Sharbi and friends see: https://randomhouseaustralia.wordpress.com/2009/08/19/it-began-inauspiciously/